Should ijust go back not talking AGAIN?

ok so my dad A.K.A this biggest jerk off like EVER ok this is why i dont like him ok so he has a gf that could be my sister shes 24 hes 37 almost 38 getting grey hairs already and im 14 ok not even the point i hate that but u no love comes in all ages right but see the last 5 years he been with her there been less calls to me we stoped talking for 4 moths all together im not allowed at his house b/c his wife doesnt like me, he hasnt came to any of my birthdays and he always forgets anyway.my 14th he didnt come b/c like a week before his wife teran wanted to go on a boat trip so instead of my b-day he was with her family in laughin for a week with his boat and the year before that he just didnt want to make the ride and i had to call him and then he said happy birthday.o yes and best part so he lives in cail. and i live in a.z right well im not allowed back in his car and he thought it was me and it really wasnt so no im not allowed in it now and he just like to play w/ my head~notfair

Should ijust go back not talking AGAIN?

Maybe the problem lies with you not liking his wife. I understand she is younger then he is...but not so young as you might think. Your going to have to either accept her for what she is or just accept that he will take her side. My dad was like yours too so I can sympthize with you. But now that Im grown I see that I never really gave her a chance to get to know me cuz I right off hated her. I hope you the best no matter what road you might take

Should ijust go back not talking AGAIN?

Obviously your dad has really really big issues. If he is choosing that girl over his blood than you need to find another male role model for your life. If I were you, I would disown him, but thats just me.

Should ijust go back not talking AGAIN?

I feel your pain. The sad truth is that most dads when they remarry leave their first family behind as the new one takes priority. A second wife wants all of her husband's love, attention and resources for their life together. That happens in nature too. When a younger male lion ousts the leader of a pride he kills all the cubs of the old male so that the females will come into heat and he can bred them to bare his own cubs thus ensuring his genes to another generation. The best you can do is keep the lines of communication open and let him know that you are there.