Our baby does not ressemble us?

Our baby daughter is nearly 5 months old. I must admitt she does not look like what we thought she would. Im half filo / half aussie and my man is full maori ( new zealand ) . Our daughter is white, light blue grey eyes and fair hair. It hasent bothered me in the past, but recently people have been commenting on how fair etc she is and that her eyes should have changed by now if they were to be brown and she should have more colour to her. Now my partner is acting up about. Now hes come up with a story saying the month I fell pregnant on he was away for 2 days... and im like whatever your scarping the barrel. He even makes comments to his best friend that our daughter looks more like him! because hes aussie. He wants a DNA test done. He just makes me sick.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

I know what you are going through, i had the same problem with my first son, he was born jet black hair and olive complexion. and as i was white Australian and my hubby being a white pom. my son should have looked like us. but as he got older, he did resemble my mothers side of the family more, but also has features of his dad as well. my second son was born white and red hair. but now has blonde hair and is a clone of his father. don't stress too much men are paranoid freaks and sooner all later your daughter will resemble some part of both side`s of the family. tell him to grow up just because you both conceived a child doesn't mean it will be a clone of either you or your husband. babies change features all the time as they get older. just like adults. Also tell him to be more kind to his daughter she didn't ask to look different from the parents.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

OK. Whats your question?

Our baby does not ressemble us?

I actually heard that like one out of every hundred babies is accidentally given to the wrong set of parents.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

Shes an alien babay! No worries!

Our baby does not ressemble us?

Well, I guess the only way to prove that it is his child is to perform the DNA test. Better than continue fighting and get nothing solved =)

Our baby does not ressemble us?

You will submit to the DNA test, of course? Could be she is fair due to ancestry one or the other of you has that you're unaware of. He's being very insensitive...but you should do the DNA test just to put this to rest.

If you're part Aussie, that could explain her whiteness and blue eyes though....

Our baby does not ressemble us?

but seriously i think all guys would act like that us men are more emotional then u guys think lol i would be curious if my baby dont look like any of us and him being gone for 2 days that month would bring suspicion but if u know u have nothing to hide then take the dna test to prove to him that u are true to him

Our baby does not ressemble us?

She probably inherited her grandparents' traits. Just get a DNA test, so he'll shut his paranoid mouth.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

Sorry, but you're not even asking a question. To be honest, what people say about your child's look shouldn't matter. As for your husband, it sounds like you two have relationship issues to work on. May I suggest marriage counseling? Or at least try to sit down and talk like adults?

Our baby does not ressemble us?

That's OK. Here's a scientific answer. U and ur spouse could've been carrying other recessive traits and they've decided to show up now.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

The baby just happened to receive both of each parents' recessive genes, thats all.

and that is pretty dumb if husband can't trust you

Our baby does not ressemble us?

If the father of my children did that, I would go off on him if he even joked that he was not the father of my baby when I know damn well that he is. He'd be begging to be let back in the house when he came home and found all his **** outside.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

Hi

I read online that a child's more permanent eye color will not be developed until he/she is 3 years old. So even if your child's eye color is light blue or grayish looking, it may not stay that way, and it takes more time before a child starts to look like either parent, and your child is only 5 months old. If you have white ancestry, then maybe your child just has more of your genetic features, and the genetic traits may be recessive. Give him a DNA test because if you don't he's gonna continue to doubt that the child is his, and he's not being fair to you concerning this situation either. He could handle this situation in a better way instead of trying to make you look bad.

Our baby does not ressemble us?

Well, babies are small and really still forming, even at 5 months. The fair complection and such could be recessive genes that have been floating around for awhile, and just decided to surface. Many people didn't see much of my parents in me until I was 4 or 5 when the bone structure and nose and such started looking more like bone structure and my nose than baby blobs. Genetics is very very tricky. You really don't have anything to lose by a DNA test, other than that he's being a suspicious douche, so its really your call.